Why Church? (4/6)

Hii!

1. HOOK!

Main point:
It's important to come together for fellowship, to strengthen and encourage each other as you grow in Christ and to worship God together!

So to highlight this we're using the chopsticks analogy!
You can break one easily, but it's really quite impossible to break a whole bunch of them!

So eat noodles this week and collect more of those wooden chopsticks or if you've got satay sticks/ice cream sticks they're also good! Try to bring enough for your own group.

Joanna


Theme verse:

Hebrews 10:24-25
'And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another - and all the more as you see the Day approaching.'


Opening thoughts

We realized that sometimes, we and the kids might take sundays as a routine and just go because we have done it for the last 12-18 years. Then, we get busy [because we always get busier as time passes] and sometimes we don't come or we just let other things take over our lives. We want to ask the kids the "WHY" and the reason they come to church. Why do they come to church, and to be really honest about everything.

Survey (pdf click here to see)

Q1 the five other things they could do other than church

it could be anything. but they are putting all of it before GOD. again ask about their priorities and where they lie.

Q2 and Q3
(mostly about the same pt, ie WHY they come)

KEY POINT 1. identify WHY you come.
like Seth said during the retreat, the "why" is the most important, and that will drive the kids for the rest of their church lives. This is the foundation of their faith as well, in our opinion.
* we should set our priorities straight. like written above, as time passes we get busier and we should trust GOD during that time instead of trying to supply ourselves with energy so as to do the "best" we think we can do. [where your heart lies][we worship him because we love him]

Q4 we think that
"you can be a christian without going to church" and
"if church is boring, you should change churches" are sort of important. Ask them what church means to them. if it is a building to them then yes, without going to church, we can be christians. remind them that church is not just the building but the people itself. it is important to have fellowship with each other as written above. so no, being christian you cannot walk alone. you must walk with each other to help each other grow and learn.

Supporting with scripture:Ecclesiastes 4:12 'Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.'

While going through the other options in this question, bring up these points!

KEY POINT 2. fellowship
ask your kids what fellowship means to them. fellowship in a christian sense is not only to hang around and get to know each other and have a good time, but also to meet new people to help you in your walk with GOD by strengthening you and encouraging each other and such. [mainly for encouragement]
you can give your kids examples such as when you feel like you are having a real down time and have no one to turn to, you can talk to your christian friends. or when you're overwhelmed with just life in general, knowing that someone is there to talk to you and give you advice not only with things like academics but also spiritually.

KEY POINT 3. worshiping and sermons are equally important
worshiping is important as it opens up your heart to GOD and lets in the spirit, so that one can be ready to accept the sermons and understand the pastor as he/she speaks. worshiping is important as some people can feel impacted by the lyrics. sometimes we just hum the tunes or sing the song without really thinking about what it means. others are impacted by the sermon, where they learn something new. For example, we know all the bible stories or know what they are telling us, but there may be something that a pastor may say that can really touch us.
like pastor lillian [i think] talked about something like the infilling and indwelling of the spirit. We have the dwelling of the spirit, however we need to go to church for the filling of the spirit, because that is as important than just having the spirit but not feeding it and helping yourself grow in GOD.

KEY POINT 4. it's impt to spend personal quite time alone with GOD, but it's also impt to gather and spend time with GOD together.
being recharged, words of encouragements and such. we are stronger together. by being together and praying together we can not only grow with each other but also be stronger with each other in fellowship and in GOD.
you can also say that going to church is like starting a new week with GOD and putting him in control of our lives by starting the new week with him.

Supporting with scripture:
Matt 18:20 'For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them.'

Closing thoughts
Q5 the most important verse (our theme verse for this week's lesson!) is Hebrews 10:24-25.
i think that the kids should memorize this verse or know the main gist of it.
"And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching."
and even individually, we should remember and share why we go to church and be honest in our sharing. Let us also know that we need each other to help develop our relationship with GOD and with each other.

(and I guess you can dicuss the other verses in relation to key points 2,3,4, like tie it all together!)
YEAHHHH!)

challenge the kids to tell us why they come to church next week, and to be real honest.

ask them if they trust anyone in church enough. like in terms of fellowship and stuff.

Choosing God's Forgiveness (27 June)

As you can see the lesson is rather long... so get your kids there timely =]
Majority credit to Megan, Carty's sister for this lesson =]



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P.S. I already bought the plasticine

Retreat Outcome

We agree to

1. Share more personal experiences
2. Bring back "hook" activities to draw in their youth's attention whenever possible.
3. Announce the next week's lesson during the previous week's debrief so that they can spend time thinking about it.
4. Prepare to teach earlier... from the Saturday before to the Thursday before.

Praise the LORD!

Reason for Faith (13 June)

It is a blessing for young children to be brought up in Christian families. Jesus loves them wholeheartedly, in this there can be no doubt since he spoke the words, “let the little children come to me”. Through their parents, these children come to know Jesus Christ at a young age and take their first steps of faith under Jesus' watchful eye. Yet when asked, not all of these dearly beloved young ones know why they believe in Jesus Christ. Perhaps this is because their faith becomes almost a given and the only life that they know. Or the world's desensitizing effects gets to them, and they cease to recognize that they believed because they had come to experience God's love in its simplest and purest form. Thus it is no surprise that they often struggle when pressed to produce a reason for their faith. Like the parable of the sower, these Christians are stifled and cannot bear fruit because of the rocky places. As God's fellow sower, we have the opportunity to turn those rocky places into fertile soil. That is the objective of today's lesson. Keep praying that God will tear down the barriers that prevent them from desiring to know Him, His ways and His truth.

Note: I know this lesson is more apologetic than bible study. We can discuss on Sunday whether you prefer to teach everything or that I teach pt 1-4 in a big group and you go through pt 5-6 in small groups. Also, please voice out early if there is a logical fallacy that you can't stand ;)

1.Do you know how to identify Christians from non-Christians?

Perhaps you perceive that Christians are more concerned about being holy... but that is not necessarily true. Both Christians and non-Christians share the same sinful human nature and there are individuals who subscribe to other religions who are just as jealous about keeping their religion's laws. What really distinguishes a Christian from a non-Christian is the belief that Jesus Christ died on the cross for his sins (John 3:16). To the genuine Christian... Christ is both Savior and Lord.

2.This belief is called the gospel and goes something like this:

There exists a perfect and holy God who creates Man on earth. But Man takes on a sinful nature, choosing to rebel against his Creator and become separated from God by sin. This separation is irreconcilable by you and I. We are mere mortals and are unable to stop sinning completely. As a result our sin condemns us to punishment and death. God is the only one capable of rescuing Man from his predicament. God hates sin but he also loves us. Thus in an act of sacrificial love, God sends his Son who is also God in the form of a Man to redeem us from our sins by paying the price – death and separation from the Father and the Holy Spirit!

How do Christians come to believe this incredible message?

All Christians believe in the gospel through faith. (Eph 2:8)

3.But what exactly is faith?

Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. (Heb 11:1)

4.Is it unreasonable to believe in something that you have not seen?

Of course not. Actually, you and I believe in many things that we have not seen. For e.g. You cannot see the nutrition being absorbed by your body when you eat vegetables yet you believe on the testimony of others that vegetables are good for your health. What's really important is not our ability to observe an object but the object's actual validity (Is it true?) and authenticity (Is it real?).

In the case of vegetables, researchers are able to provide scientific evidence of its nutritional benefits. If scientists are able to prove that vegetables are good for us then this does not actually require faith in their part. However, if we do not completely understand the science behind it, then believing in the scientific findings may require a little faith. In the case of Jesus, scholars are able to provide historical evidence from both biblical and extra-biblical source documents concerning His life and only dishonest scholarship would lead one to the conclusion that Jesus never lived.

5.Read John 8:48-59. Who did Jesus claim to be? (v 54, 58)

Did you see what the contrast taking place? Jesus called God, “my Father” and the Abraham, the Jew's father. Jesus claimed to be the Son of God and also God himself!

Both you and I can also claim to be God but it wouldn't take more than a few minutes to disprove our claims. Jesus on the other hand, has the credentials to backup his claim.

Let's take a quick look at the evidence:

Jesus' Character – Jesus Christ was sinless. The caliber of his life was so perfect that when he challenged his enemies who, “Which of you convicts me of sin?” (John 8:46). His disciples John, Paul, and Peter were brought up on “Adam and Eve” and undoubtedly believed in the universality of sin; Yet they testified that “He committed no sin; no guile was found on his lips” (1 Peter 2:22); that Jesus “knew no sin” (2 Corinthians 5:21) and that “in him there is no sin” (1 John 3:5). Even Pilate, who was no friend of Jesus, said, “What evil has he done?”. And the Roman centurion who witnessed the death of Christ said, “Truely this was the son of God” (Matthew 27:54).

Jesus' Miracles – Jesus demonstrated a power over natural forces that could only belong to God. He stilled a raging storm (Mark 4:35-40), turned water into wine (John 2:1-11), fed 5,000 from 5 loaves and two fishes (Matthew 14:15-21) and raised the dead (Luke 7:11-14). He demonstrated the Creator's power over sickness and disease. He made the lame walk, the dumb speak, and the blind see (Luke 7:22).

Jesus' Resurrection – He predicted when and where he would die. He predicted that he would die and that three days later he would rise from the dead. It is no wonder that multitudes believed in him after he had performed this feat. (Matthew 20:17-19)

6.Many people say it doesn't really matter what you believe as long as you sincerely believe it. Are they right?

Of course not!

Suppose you were going for a holiday and as you approached the plane, you noticed that fuel was leaking from its body; the rudder at the tail is missing; and there was a deep crack on its left wing. The flight attendant smiled and said, "Welcome aboard". When you hesitated, she said, "Oh, don't worry; nothing can possibly go wrong. Just believe and we'll reach our destination."

Would your belief change the reality that the plane is in need of repairs? Would it make a difference if you sincerely believe? You may sincerely believe but you are also sincerely wrong! No matter you hard or sincere you believe, your faith cannot change reality. It would be foolish to put your trust in it and climb aboard.

Our belief should rest on a trustworthy object. Note that I did not say that our belief should rest on an observable object. If the object is obserable then belief is not needed; belief would be redundant. We cannot prove absolutely matters of faith. Nevertheless, we should exercise due diligence to validate the reliability of the object (of our faith). Belief should be rational; a conviction that is grounded in evidence. We should not believe what we suspect to be untrue. Belief in something not justified by reason or evidence is superstition.

If we want to know whether believing in Jesus is trustworthy we should read the four gospels in greater detail to find out who Jesus said he was and what his eyewitnesses had to say about him. Christianity is not merely “a religion” as defined by the world. It is not just a set of beliefs and practices to govern human behavior. Rather, it is about God reaching out to have a relationship with Man. As God's forgiven people, we know that Jesus is God because you and I can experience a rich relationship with him today. Experience by itself is not conclusive, but combined with the historic objective fact of the resurrection it gives the basis for a solid conviction.

Ask your students if they have any doubts about their faith... you do not have to give them the answer now... and encourage your students to read the gospels.

Sources:
Know why you believe – Paul Little
http://www.vtaide.com/gleanings/belief-reality.htm
http://www.northave.org/MGManual/defense2/JesusHistorical.htm

Loving Jesus 6 June 2010

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TTB Sec 1s Small Group Lesson Plan – 6 June 2010

Lesson Title: “Loving Jesus

Scripture: Luke 7: 36-50


Dear Leaders,


How has your journey in leading the Sec 1s been? J As you spend another Sunday discipling the next generation of youth, I want to encourage you to press on in teaching and mentoring them, that your service always be born out of your love for Christ! For this sunday, we are going to focus on why we have been encouraging them to share the gospel – it is the love for Christ that compels us. We will delve deeper into what it means to love Jesus and why we love Him. Ultimately we will have to ask ourselves this question – “Do I love Jesus? How much do I love Him?”. I pray that today’s lesson will cause us to reflect and think about what it means to love Jesus, beginning with ourselves.


Love,

Hannah


Short Note to Leaders:

Aim of lesson:

- For Luke 7: 47 to be internalized into our hearts – “Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven – for she loved much. But he who has been forgiven little loves little.”

- We can only love Jesus when we realise how much a sinner we are and how much we have been forgiven!


Warming up:


1. Think of a person who has “fallen in love” or is “in love”. How does he/she behave?


(No specific answer. Key is to get the youth to share what they feel/think)

One suggested answer could be that a person who is in love usually spends a lot of time devoting himself to the other person he is in love with. The person is also willing to sacrifice other things in love for the person he loves.

Exploring Deeper:


2. Read Luke 7: 36-50. Ask the youth to imagine the scene of Jesus at the dinner table, along with all the sights, sound and touch. Describe what they imagine.


Again there is no specific answer. The key is to summarise what is happening in the passage and to make the scene come alive in your heads. J


3. What did the woman do for Jesus? (vs 37, 38)


Suggested Answer:

The woman brought an alabaster jar of perfume, wet Jesus’ feet with her tears, wiped and cleaned Jesus’ feet with her hair and the perfume and kisses. Also highlight the fact that this woman did not do this privately. She did it publicly and in front of the Pharisees.


4. What do you think it might have cost this woman to publicly do what she did? (Ie what did the woman have to sacrifice in showing her love for Jesus?) (vs 39)


Suggested Answer:

It would have cost her three things. Firstly, her public image and reputation as a woman would be affected. A woman should not be touching men in those times. Moreover, she had lived a sinful life, and her actions may cause greater disdain. Secondly, it would have cost her whatever little wealth she had. The alabaster jar of perfume is valuable money, but she chose to use it on cleaning Jesus’ feet instead – the lowest and most insignificant thing to the Pharisee. Thirdly, it would have cost her whatever pride she had. Having to wash another person’s feet with tears, cleaning it with her hair and anointing it with perfume, is truly an act of humility.


5. What did Simon the Pharisee do for Jesus?


Suggested Answer:

Simon did not do anything for Jesus. (vs 44-46)


6. What parable did Jesus tell Simon the Pharisee? (vs 40-43)


Suggested Answer:

Basically just summarise the parable of the two debtors.


7. What was Jesus’ main point through the parable of the two debtors? (42-47)


Suggested Answer:

Which of the debtors will love him more? We can only love much when we are forgiven much. The key is for our blind eyes to be open to how much we have been forgiven.


8. Why did the woman respond so differently from Simon?


Suggested Answer:

The woman did so because she understood who Jesus was to her. She understood that she was a great sinner. She understood how much Jesus loves her and can forgive her of all her sins. She was not shy in displaying her love for Jesus publicly. Her love for Jesus was NOT a private affair.

Recall last week’s lesson on being on fire for Christ. The woman recklessly abandoned everything to love Jesus. Do we?

On the other hand, Simon the Pharisee saw himself as a religious person, as someone who only needs a little forgiveness. According to Jesus’ parable, one who is forgiven little loves little.


Internalising/Application:

9. Are we like the woman or are we like Simon the Pharisee?


Suggested Answer:

Get the youth to seriously reflect on this question. It is crucial. Most of them may be like Simon without even knowing it. Do we first recognise that we are sinners and we have been forgiven much? This passage actually warns us against being like Simon, thinking that as long as we are Christians who behave “Christianly we are fine when in actual fact we are not! We have not understood what kind of sinner we are and how much Jesus loves us and forgives us.

When Jesus entered into Simon’s house (Simon entered into Jesus’ presence), he did not feel anything, nor did he feel compelled to express his love for Jesus. Are we the same? Do we come to church as a routine? Do we feel different in Jesus’s presence? Do we express our love for Him publicly?


Rounding-Up:

Spend time praying for one another, that we will love Jesus more and more each day, and not be ashamed in doing so.


Matthew 22: 37-39

Jesus replied: " 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.’ “

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